ECounselling

ECounselling 2017-04-27T22:10:25+00:00

Many people will, at some point in their lives, find themselves in the role of a counsellor without having a true understanding of the concept of counselling or what the role of the professional counsellor entails.

The role of the counsellor is to enable the client to explore many aspects of their life and feelings, by talking openly and freely.  Talking in such a way it is rarely possible with family or friends, who are likely to be emotionally involved and have opinions and biases that may be detrimental to the success of the counselling.  It is important that the counsellor is not emotionally involved with the client and does not become so during counselling sessions.  The counsellor neither judges, nor offers advice. The counsellor gives the client an opportunity to express difficult feelings such as anger, resentment, guilt and fear in a confidential environment.

The counsellor may encourage the client to examine parts of their lives that they may have found difficult or impossible to face before.  There may be some exploration of early childhood experiences in order to throw some light on why an individual reacts or responds in certain ways in given situations. This is often followed by considering ways in which the client may change such behaviours.

Effective counselling reduces confusion, allowing the client to make effective decisions leading to positive changes in their attitude and/or behaviour.  Effective counselling is not advice-giving and is not acting on someone else’s behalf (these are more the roles of a life coach).  The ultimate aim of counselling is to enable the client to make their own choices, reach their own decisions and to act upon them accordingly.

Counselling is:

  • The process that occurs when a client and counsellor set aside time in order to explore difficulties which may include the stressful or emotional feelings of the client.
  • The act of helping the client to see things more clearly, possibly from a different view-point. This can enable the client to focus on feelings, experiences or behaviour, with a goal to facilitating positive change.
  • A relationship of trust.  Confidentiality is paramount to successful counselling.  Professional counsellors will usually explain their policy on confidentiality, they may, however, be required by law to disclose information if they believe that there is a risk to life.

Counselling is Not:

  • Giving advice.
  • Judgemental.
  • Attempting to sort out the problems of the client.
  • Expecting or encouraging a client to behave in a way in which the counselor may have behaved when confronted with a similar problem in their own life.
  • Getting emotionally involved with the client.
  • Looking at a client’s problems from your own perspective, based on your own value system.

Additional Resources:

7 Cups
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Access CBT
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Alma Psicologia (Spanish)
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BetterHelp
BetterHelp will match you to one of 2,000 licensed therapists. Get feedback, advice and guidance from your counselor. All counselors are licensed, accredited professionals. BetterHelp allows you to connect with them in a safe and private online environment. Anything you share is confidential.

BlahTherapy
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Breaking Free Online
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Breakthrough
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CarrieNet
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ConsultDirect (Australia)
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Darkness Recovery
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DBT Path
earn DBT skills online in our live (real-time) DBT informed psychoeducational classes. Online DBT Course led by Debbie Corso, B.Sc., Emotional Confidence Guide, DBT Skills Educator, in recovery from BPD and emotionally sensitive and Kathryn C. Holt, LCSW, psychotherapist.

Hasu Ecounselling
Therapy From the Comfort of Your Home.  Confidential online counselling with certified Canadian therapists.

HelpPRO Suicide Prevention Therapist Finder. (U.S)
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Learn to Live
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Liveperson: Mental and Emotional Health
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MyShrink
A crisis doesn’t make appointments, so you may not have time to look for a face-to-face therapist when it hits you. That’s when an online counselor is the ideal choice. Online Crisis Counseling. Discover if Online Counseling is for you.

Online Counselling Service
We are a UK based Counselling Organisation with a passion for supporting people to cultivate healthy minds and emotional stability. We help clients feel better about themselves, their lives and their relationships. 24 hour Online Counselling and Telephone Therapy can be accessed worldwide, 7 days a week, from work, overseas or the comfort of your own home.

Online Mindfulness Therapy
Mindfulness Therapy teaches you how to control the habitual reactive thinking that feeds your anxiety and depression. Dr. Peter Strong

On the Line (Australia)
On the Line provides 24/7 professional telephone, video and online-chat counselling services to people when and where they need it, regardless of their geography or circumstance. We are experts in men’s mental health, healthy relationships and suicide prevention.

PsychCentral
There are many different ways you can get help for a mental health concern. Psychotherapy is an important option to consider. You can quickly and easily find a good therapist through our Find a Therapist service.

Power of Mind
Power of Mind is a private online counselling service that helps individuals of all ages, of any culture and of any status to be helped, guided and supported through counselling.

Presto Experts
Experts and Tutors available around the clock. Post your needs and we will match you with the right experts.

Respuestas a la depresion (Spanish)
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SupportGroups
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Talk to a Therapist Online
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Therapieland (Dutch)
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TherapyMarket (UK)
Find a counsellor, coach or therapy practitioner who works over the Internet with one easy search. Webcam counselling, email / online therapy and internet coaching make it easy to overcome problems and improve your life online. Search for male or female coaches, therapists or counsellors from all over Britain

Therary With Promise
Promise offers private face to face therapy in central London, Oxford Circus and in central Kingston, South West London, Surrey.  Our on-line therapy also means you can talk with your therapist with Skype or with our Instant Secure Messaging, from wherever you are, whenever you need too.